When a certain someone so dear, so true, so close to you. When they have broken down their walls, unlocked their gates, pushed anything and everything that would keep someone away to try and protect themselves, let's you in. When they let you in to their own little world they call their soul. When they break down the walls, but when they resurrect those very walls, you're first action is to grab your own pick axe and hammer to try and break in. But is that the best? Is it what's truly needed?
...yes and no.
Yes it can be helpful to forceivly pry into them, to demand them open the gate to prevent damage to their little world.
No, it can be harmful. People run at their own speed, their own pace. They need time to understand themselves in order to be able to help you understand them.
I can only lead you to water, I can't make you drink.
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